The Books

Freedom happens in layers.

These books were written to build on one another. Start with Choice. Go deeper with Breaking Your Matrix. Then step into Free From Religion. Each one helps untether old agreements, inherited programming, and limiting belief systems.

Choice — book cover
2023 · The Foundation

Choice

The Most Powerful Thing in the Universe

Everything begins here. Most of your life is shaped by agreements you made without realizing it — with family, religion, culture, fear, even survival. Choice helps you see those agreements so you can question them and choose again.

"This is not the kind of book you pick up, read, and slip in next to the rest of your library. This is going to be the book you keep on the nightstand with your journal and a pen." Deb
Breaking Your Matrix — book cover
2025 · The Excavation

Breaking Your Matrix

The work of seeing what was shaping you without your consent.

If Choice tells you that the agreements exist, Breaking Your Matrix shows you how to find them. Chapter by chapter: family belief systems, religious frameworks, cultural expectations, emotional survival strategies, nervous-system conditioning. Not to destroy your past — to untether from it.

"Gil covers more issues in a person's life than one would think possible. I highly recommend Breaking Your Matrix if you are stuck in life and you know there has to be more." Maxine
Free From Religion — book cover (forthcoming)
2026 · Spiritual Freedom

Free From Religion

On leaving the frame without losing the fire.

A book for people whose spiritual life outgrew the container it started in. Not an argument against faith. An invitation into a bigger one. Releasing inherited religious frameworks without losing the love, the longing, or the reverence that first brought you in.

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Sunday's free Gathering is open to anyone. The Wednesday night Authenticity Groups take the books into practice together.